1. Be Opinionated
Guys like it when you've got your own things to say. Jangan lah orang tanye question, you just angguk-angguk je! Compete with them, make them see that you have your own opinions about the subject you guys are talking on. Tapi jangan lah controlling sangat. If you don't agree with what he is saying, politely state your view and move on to talk about other things. Kalau dier lak yang tak puas hati, abih nak cari pasal, just leave.
2. Don't Appear Too Easy
As much as guys love to see sexy girls, they would prefer if YOU (the girl they are seeing) do not dress too over. This makes them see you as different from all those sexy-dressing girls on the streets. Guys like individuality, show them some.
Apparently, guys like girls who know how to talk! Ask him questions. Answer his questions with witty comments! Don't be too conscious of what you say or do. Keep him in suspense. Message him in the middle of the night and surprise him with things about you he didn't know about. Just be open! Think unique!
4. They Know You're Hot (so you don't have to keep talking about it.)
Why dwell on something they already know?? Kalau you have nothing to say to him except to tell him constantly that you are so hot and every guy wants you, then maybe Tip #3 isn't really for you. Find other topics. Cakap lah pasal kupu-kupu terbang ke, arnab lompat-lompat ke (see under the [GUY] section and read Tip #3)
Believe it or not, guys hate it when perempuan Melayu step macam Orang Putih. No offence to chicks out there who were brought up by in an American surrounding and have somehow developed their accent. Those of you girls who unfortunately did not get to experience such pleasure, well, I think you should just quit acting like a Mat Saleh and be comfortable with who you really are. Guys are more comfortable opening up to girls who are comfortable with their own selves.
Guys get a little turned off when they see their date dress too overly, macam tak kene tempat ah. Simplicity is key. Unless you are dating some Tycoon and you nak kene dress nicely all the time, then tu lain cerite ah. But for those who likes to overdress or wear clothes that are too revealing, I think u have to be careful, your date might just not like what he sees.
Guys like to have the feeling that they are needed, for protection and other stuff. But they can only stand so much. Kalau you want him to stay by you, tunjuk dier yang you ni boleh jaga diri even without him around. Jangan selalu nakkan dier buatkan bende for you je. Once in a while, you have to stand on your own two feet and tell him that you can carry the shopping bags on your own. *unless of course they are very, very, very heavy lah.*
8. Loosen Up, Laugh A Little, Joke A Little
Eh, girls! Jangan lah serious sangat! Guys like to see the 'sotong' side of you. He wants to see you relaxed and completely unconscious of your surroundings. Tell him funny past experiences, things that will make him laugh. Joke with him. Play games. Make sure he stays interested.
9. Girls, If You Have A Boyfriend, Don't Go On Dates With Other Guys.I know lah, ni sume, sape yang tak tau kan. But seriously, ade jugak wanita-wanita yang keluar ngan lelaki lain eventhough they have boyfriends. Kenape? Buat ape? Kalau ye pon, jangan lah tipu the guy, kesian that guy. He tak tentu pasal, tak tau lak you are attached, kene maki hamon dengan your boyfriend. Ish ish ish.
Merajok skali. Cute.Merajok dua kali. Boleh accept.Merajok tiga kali. Boleh blah!Haah! Girls you don't wanna get into a situation where the guy thinks you are such a Merajok Queen, sikit-sikit nye pasal nak merajok! If he says or do something wrong, stop him immediately and tell him how you feel. If you wait even a little while longer, you are definitely going to end up merajok-ing. Believe me!
Oh yea …one more thing …of course yang tips kat atas tu sume nye important ah, tapi yang paling important skali adalah, BE YOURSELF! Kalau the guy tak boleh accept you for who you really ah…diorang sume boleh pergi lek one corner ramai-ramai main goli! BEST! Ahaha…
So the next time, you go on a date, or you want to go further in the relationship with the person, remember these tips..